Nine out of ten readers of this website are women.
Three out of four suicides are 'men'...
Nine out of ten readers of this website called 'Men's Circle' are women...
Hmmmm.... why is that?
My theory is that women read this website because they still hope 'men' can grow up, and the women would do anything to help.
The Women's Liberation Movement started in the 1960s.
Women are far ahead of 'men' in the evolution of consciousness.
What then is a women to do when she wants to look in the eyes of a Man who can see Her...
...as something other than a sex toy, a possession, a mother-substitute, a slave?
Where is the Man initiated enough to call the Archetypal Woman to life through Her?
Where is the man who is Archetypal enough to shine in Her company?
To creatively collaborate with Women and Men in Archiarchy?
Wrestling with such questions helps you escape the patriarchy.
The necessity of an authentic question is vital enough to push you through your fears of discovering an edge of the patriarchy. Bridges to archearchy begin only at the edges of patriarchy.
Women want answers to these questions:
"Admit to yourself that if you had to choose one or the other, the perfect intimate relationship or achieving your highest purpose in life, you would choose to succeed at your purpose."
- from The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida
"Men's chief self-deception in modern civilization is to avoid distinguishing which 'I' is doing your evaluating, and what that identity's hidden purpose is. Living alertly in this distinction is the beginning of male initiations in archearchy."
- from Possibility by Clinton Callahan
'MEN'S' CIRCLE EXPERIMENTS
Enough of 'men' talking...
It takes extraordinary (shocking) experience to get a patriarch out of his head.
A 'Men's Circle Experiment' is extraordinary experience you create for yourself, on purpose.
What's the purpose? To escape the patriarchy.
"Burn down the mission, if you're going to stay alive..." (Elton John)
Probably you won't actually do any of these Experiments.
Your soul has been abducted since birth by the patriarchy.
There is little left in in you with enough will to choose something different.
Life in archearchy is quite exquisitely good.
Do these Experiments in the order in which they are given.
Trying to jump ahead is like trying to eat bread before it is baked.
You are definitely not baked.
START A MEN'S CIRCLE
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You cannot escape the patriarchy without a Team. Your inner world is too frail to withstand the shock of seeing how much you do not know that actually matters. You won't make it to archearchy as you are. You are a joke.
Bringing a few uninitiated 'men' together for a weekly Men's Circle Team meeting without already knowing how to create and navigate energetic Space is like trying to lift yourself up by pulling on your own hair.
You already know it will hurt. Not only that, it probably won't work.
Where to start in the immense horror of it all...
What horror, you ask?
Ah, yes. This is what we confront: dullness in you about the horrors of 'men'.
There are two rules in the Men's Circle:
This Experiment is to start your Men's Circle.
Once your Men's Circle is started, proceed together doing the Experiments below.
EACH TIME YOU COME TOGETHER IN MEN'S CIRCLE PRACTICE BEING CENTERED
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You have 5 Bodies: physical, intellectual, emotional, energetic, and archetypal.
This is a very different worldview from thinking of yourself as a physical body with a mind.
Each of your 5 Bodies has a Center.
Do whatever exercises are necessary to take ownership of the Center of each of your 5 Bodies so that you can put each Center where it needs to be so you can Be Centered.
Men's Circle cannot begin until you are Centered. Otherwise you are not there. Something else is there, and that something else has no capacity to escape the patriarchy.
WRITE YOUR ARTICLE ABOUT PREPARING TO ESCAPE FROM THE PATRIARCHY
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This Experiment is to make it a requirement that the third time a 'man' attends your Men's Circle, the price of entry for him is a 3 to 5 page article which he wrote and published online (platforms for publishing your article are shown at http://writeyourarticle.mystrikingly.com).
The article should be about what exactly is required for a 'man' - and specifically for him personally - to find and stand at the edge of the capitalist patriarchal empire in order to prepare himself to escape from the patriarchy.
LOWER YOUR NUMBNESS BAR AND KEEP IT LOWERED - EVEN WHEN YOU FEEL LIKE YOU ARE GOING CRAZY
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This will be intense, as intense as a Fast And Furious movie, as intense as gambling at the stock market, as intense as having another affair.
Lower Your Numbness Bar and:
You will need help lowering your Numbness Bar. You won't make it alone.
If you are not deeply connected-in with your Men's Circle Team you might even accidentally die... (think of Heath Ledger, Michael Jackson, Tom Petty, Prince, John Belushi, Lenny Bruce, Jim Morrison, River Phoenix, and many others... )
You are a stupid-bomb ready to explode or collapse at any trigger, and you have been expertly numbing yourself for decades. This is what your Team is for: to help each other.
How do you help? You Hold Space, make connection, and listen, listen, listen. Not Rescue. Listen.
You listen so that the speaker has a safe place in which they can learn to consciously feel.
Feelings and Emotions (which are very different from each other) wake up at the level of maturity they were when you shut them down... often when you were less than 1 year old, sometimes even in the mother's belly.
This means they come back as self-hatred, blame, accusation, or collapse. Their condition does not matter. After the slag of emotional slime blows off in the safe space, pure precious intelligent present-time feelings show up from underneath. This is what you are heading for.
But you can't get there without going through the rotten stuff first. It does not take too long if you adopt the New Thoughtmap of Feelings and someone listens to you with Completion Loops.
This Experiment is to spend the first part of every Men's Circle listening with Completion Loops to each person's current Feelings and Emotions and what they are about. You can call this 'Check-In'.
EACH TIME YOU COME TO MEN'S CIRCLE DO THE 3-3-3 EXERCISE TOGETHER
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The 3-3-3 Practice is that 3 time per week, for 3 minutes each time, over a period of 3 months, lie down on your bed or a couch and do lying rage work, out loud. If your rage sounds might bother the neighbors, you can do it with a cloth in your mouth. But your nervous system reorders through your Voice, so if you are not VERY loud, and VERY rude, and VERY outrageous in your 3-3-3 Practice, you are NOT doing it.
Important further specifics are given in the 3-3-3 website.
The Experiment is to make one of your three 3-3-3 Practices each week all together during your Men's Circle meeting.
ENTER LIQUID STATES - EVEN IF YOU FEEL LIKE YOU ARE GOING CRAZY
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Addiction is not the problem. Addiction is the solution to the problem. What is the problem?
The problem is that you cannot Consciously Feel. You have been taught the opposite: conscious numbness.
Any change from one way to another way crosses through one or more places where there is no way.
That place where there is no way is groundless, therefore unfamiliar, therefore objectively frightening.
Because you are terrified of your fear, you automatically turn away from any chance to go through the Liquid States between your current way and any new way.
You have effectively nailed your shoes to the floor exactly where you are. This explains a lot about your life. You already went to school. You assume that there is nothing else to learn.
Nothing could be farther from the truth.
What we invite you to do is step out of your shoes. Leave your nailed-down shoes behind. Move forward barefoot, more connected to Earth, without the familiar numbness.
In short this Experiment is: Learn to cry.
Your heart is broken. You have locked the horrific pain of your broken heart deep inside of you for decade after insane decade.
Learn how to unleash big, loud, heaving aching sobs... for a long time, in public, at least in the Presence of another human being who can hear you and Hold Space for you.
If you ever knew how to cry, you have forgotten. You put your sadness away under lock and key. As a result, your heart is shriveled from loneliness. You are lonely without sadness because sadness connects. "In sorrows we are one."
You make huge efforts to keep yourself distracted from feeling your heart's pitiable shriveled condition.
To not cry you have built a suffocating wall around your heart. What is your wall made of? Steel? Stone? Barbed wire? Concrete? All of the above with machine guns on top?
Find the material of your wall. Draw a detailed sketch of your wall in your Beep! Book. (It does not matter if you 'cannot draw'.)
After you draw your sketch, each one show and explain it to the others.
Then spend 10 minutes with each 'man' in the circle inventing linear and nonlinear Experiments they could try in the next weeks for taking a bit of the wall around their heart apart. If they do not write down what you say, they are wasting your time. Anything they understand in their mind can be erased and forgotten by their Box and Gremlin in less than 3 seconds.
Hold each other accountable for doing these Experiments. That is what this Team is for.
EACH TIME YOU COME TO MEN'S CIRCLE DO EXERCISES TO MAKE SURE EACH 'MAN' HAS HIS CENTER, HIS GROUNDING CORD, HIS PERSONAL BUBBLE OF SPACE, HIS GREMLIN SITTING AT HIS SIDE ON A SHORT CHAIN, AND HIS SWORD OF CLARITY TO HAND
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Before this Men's Circle, each 'man' obtain (buy, or even better, hand-carve together) a 'Bokken', a Japanese wooden practice sword as described in this video (2 min).
Watch the film Last Samurai together. Makes notes in your Beep! Book about:
THERE IS SO MUCH WE DON'T KNOW THAT WE DON'T KNOW ABOUT. EACH DISCOVERY OPENS WHOLE NEW WORLDS OF POSSIBILITY, SUCH AS PRACTICING AT EACH MEN'S CIRCLE MEETING ONE OF THESE 13 ESCAPE TOOLS
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This Experiment starts with going around your Circle and give each 'man' the opportunity to take back their Authority to learn skills that neither their parents nor teachers knew about.
This would be like finding a toolbox left on Earth by an alien race.
This is a treasure that grows bigger each time you give it away. What will you do with it?
Here is the Golden Key to the alien tool box: http://13tools.mystrikingly.com.
The ball is in your court. What are you going to do with it?
Or click on it during each Men's Circle to practice the new tools together?
During Men's Circle anyone can make proposals to the Spaceholder about doing what is important and interesting for them. This Experiment is to keep raising your hand an asking to practice the 13 Patriarchy Escape Tools until you've got all of them activated, ready and waiting to use in each moment.
EXPERIENTIALLY DISTINGUISH YOUR BOX (GREMLIN) AND YOUR BEING
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Do the Box And Being initiation.
During this initiation each 'man' gains repeated experiential distinctions about the radical difference between the various Survival Strategy-powered Parts of their Box, and their spacious Being.
If you ever have a conflict with someone else, it is not your Being that has the conflict. It is your Box that has the conflict.
And your Box does not have a conflict with the other person's Being. Your Box has the conflict with the other person's Box. It is a Box to Box conflict.
You are no more your Box than a chocolate bar is its wrapper.
After doing the Box And Being Initiation, your Box can be completely freaked out having problems, but you don't have to be freaked out at all. Let your Box freak out while you stay in amazed connection with the other Being.
NOTES TO SPACEHOLDER:
YOUR GREMLIN IS EITHER THE MAIN TOOL YOUR SURVIVAL STRATEGY USES TO DEFEND AND ATTACK (TYPE 1 GREMLIN), OR YOU HAVE CRUSHED PARTS OF YOUR GREMLIN TO TRY TO BE A NICE BOY (TYPE 2 GREMLIN). NEITHER STRATEGY SERVES BEING AN ADULT MAN ON THE PATH OF INITIATION. HUNT YOUR GREMLIN.
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ESCAPE FROM SCHOOL. YOU CARRY SO MANY CRUSHED POTENTIALS, HIDDEN WOUNDS, AND SUPPRESSED IMPULSES IN YOU THAT CAN NEVER BE UNLEASHED UNTIL YOU QUIT SCHOOL. YOU MIGHT BE OLD, BUT YOU ARE STILL IN SCHOOL.
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Study the videos, books, articles, and Experiments at Quit School.
After more fully understanding the gameworld of school and what it did to you, you might be ready for the Heal From School initiation.
If not, then keep raising your hand to use the toilet, and definitely do not ask real questions.
EACH TIME YOU COME TO MEN'S CIRCLE IDENTIFY ANOTHER OF YOUR REACTIVITY HABITS AND HEAL IT WITH RADICALLY HONEST CLARITY ABOUT WHAT IS GOING ON
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This Experiment is to read the article Healing With Clarity 2020 by Clinton Callahan, and then to read and discuss the two websites Reactivity and Zombies.
Most of what most people in modern culture interpret as aliveness is actually the mechanical Reactivity of Zombies.
Before even talking about what you think or feel about this last sentence, you'd best read through the distinctions in the article and the two websites and discussing what you think and feel about them first.
This would be time well spent.
Then each time you come into your Men's Circle, identify another of your reactivity habits and heal it with radically-honest clarity about what is really going on, doing some emotional healing work (Rage Holds on the floor), and sooner or later making some new decisions about who you are and what you are doing here in a place like this with people like them.
WATCH THE CIRCLE WAY FILM TOGETHER
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Arrange to download or stream the Circle Way film and watch it together.
Compare and contrast meeting in hierarchies and meeting in circles.
What are the strong points in each form of organization?
What are the weak points in each form of organization?
After watching the film, this Experiment is to have your Men's Circles using a hierarchical power structure. Decide who the CEO and top managers are, and who are merely the employees. Use Roberts Rules of Order and Parliamentary Procedure to run your meeting and make decisions.
Take careful not of how much Gremlin and how many survival strategies and habitual behaviors to withdraw or compete get triggered and automatically come into play.
What do you think about what you experienced in the hierarchical meeting?
What do you feel about what you experienced in the hierarchical meeting?
This might be a very painful experience. Be sure people's pain (anger, sadness, fear, Gremlin joy, and mixed Emotions) are heard in the space.
DON'T FIT IN, DON'T ADAPT, DON'T AGREE, DON'T WITHHOLD. ORIGINATE EACH MOMENT IN AN UNFAMILIAR CONTEXT
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You are just as controlled by any rule you oppose as any rule you follow.
Talk about this idea around the Circle so you understand what this says about rules.
This Experiment is to be okay with radically disappointing your father, your grandfather, your ancestors, and your spiritual traditions.
You will not be disappointing them for the purpose of getting revenge. This Experiment is to be okay with being a disappointment to them so that you can learn to still be connected with them and still be able to relate to them even when they are deeply disappointed in you for abandoning them, for choosing something different from imitating them .
"You do not change things by fighting existing gameworlds. You change things by building new gameworlds that make existing gameworlds irrelevant."
Existing gameworlds are already obsolete, like how a chicken can run around with its head already cut off.
This Experiment is to get in groups of 3:
FIND AND ENGAGE ARCHEARCHAL INITIATIONS AS A TEAM THAT SUPPORTS EACH OTHER DURING YOUR TRANSFORMATIONAL LIQUID STATES
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Indigenous cultures are NOT archearchal cultures.
Indigenous initiations are NOT archearchal initiations.
Read the Initiations website together and understand how archearchal initiations transfer a person's 'Assemblage Point' to a different place than Indigenous Initiations, and why that is important now.
The Experiment here is to choose one of the Initiators listed on the website and - as a Men's Circle Team - all go do the same authentic archearchal adulthood initiation at the same time together. If any of the 'men' in your Team 'do not have enough money' to do the initiation, then work it out as a Team to create the money for that with them together. After then, then work with them on Becoming Money.
TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR THE LEVEL OF RESPONSIBILITY YOU TAKE
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Assume you have been taught - since an early age - that responsibility is something only stupid people do. Consequences are for the losers to face, not you. You are a 'man'. Probably a white 'man'. You are the chosen one.
Please get out your Beep! Book and at the first empty page, start writing on a page titled MY CRIMES. Convict yourself. Irrefutably. Give exact dates, methods, names, places, and most concisely, your motives. Look at that intensely. Let it in as deeply as you can. Smash your face into the shit you have created. Taste the bitterness.
This is not masochism. This is clarity about what you have done with your life so far.
Convict yourself of treason, of betraying the future of species, the future of children. Convict yourself of unconscionably following in the footsteps of the 'men' who have gone before you in the patriarchy. You are a patriarch.
What's the patriarchy?
Yes, exactly that is what we are up against. Willful ignorance, nepotism, arrogance, belligerence, negligence, narcissism, thinking you can own things, thinking you have privilege.
Unfortunately you are an uninitiated adolescent no matter how old you are or how much money you have. Your imagined status is a joke in the face of reality.
See if you can stop bullshitting yourself for a few minutes and write down what you have so far sourced for your village, for the future generations, for Gaia's health. It is only debt, lethal cancerous toxins that last 50,000 years.
I would bet money you have not even taken responsibility for your own feelings, your own thoughtware, the context of your gameworlds, your own stand, your own word, your own commitments, your own voice, or your own authority. You don't know how. You never saw anyone else do it. You did not even think it was possible.
Looking for excuses? For pity? Sorry. It is far too late for that. You are convicted.
You have been serving child-level responsibility even though you are designed to take radical responsibility.
Please write out in your Beep! Book your justifications for this. See if you can feel any of this. Since you have been imitating psychopaths, it is likely you pretend to not fee. You may die from it, but hey! The show must go on!
Or perhaps the show is over.
COMMIT THE SUICIDE OF YOUR WORLDVIEW
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This Experiment has 3 PARTS.
PART 1 of this Experiment is to read together and experiment with S.P.A.R.K.095, which says: "In the moment you seriously consider suicide your authentic life can begin." (S.P.A.R.K. stands for Specific Practical Applications of Radical Knowledge.)
PART 2 of this Experiment is to put your worldview on the block and chop its head off.
Start a new page in your Beep! Book titled: HOW MY WORLDVIEW OWNS ME, and for 10-15 minutes, list in detail the exact wording of each of the reasons that comes up for you why not to execute your worldview right NOW.
Start a new Beep! Book page titled: IRREPLACEABLE PARTS OF MY WORLDVIEW. List the beliefs, conclusions, projections, stories, assumptions, expectations, secrets, interpretations, meanings, self-images, habits, etc. that you absolutely would never want be without.
PART 3 of this Experiment is to go around your Men's Circle, and one at a time each 'man' reads out loud both of his lists from PART 2 while the others listen. Then everyone gives that 'man' compassionate feedback and coaching about what holding on to each of those worldview parts creates in that 'man's' life. Make sure they take notes about what the circle of Coaches says.
Notice if you make it into the Gap In Knowing. Being in the raw not-knowing may be unfamiliar, but it is a welcome blessing after having to restrict yourself to all the knowing in your worldview. Enjoy the not-knowing. One day your Men's Circle might want to practice Speaking From The Unknown.
ESCAPE FROM DENIAL'S SOLITARY CONFINEMENT
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You can find your way out of denial’s solitary confinement through communicating.
Communication creates intimacy.
Intimacy heals denial.
You will find your way out of solitary confinement by communicating with someone who is near to you now, already in your life.
They are the Golden Key for opening the door to your cell.
Whenever you decide to, you can use that Golden Key. Go and talk to them. But do not talk to them in the usual way.
Do not talk to them from intellect to intellect, or from mind to mind. Intellectual communication is a distortion that creates pseudo intimacy. It is better than nothing but not by much. It is enough to live on, but just barely. Mind to mind communication misses 80% of life.
You may not know how to communicate in a way that promotes intimacy. Entering full intimacy may be new to you. If you already know that you do not know how to communicate wholly then you can relax and try some new things in your communications. Not already knowing is the way.
Choose a person. It does not matter so much what kind of relationship you already have with this person or what kind you would like to have. It just needs to be a person willing to do this experiment with you. Make the plan with them to spend an hour and a half together in a place where you can speak privately. There may be some tears, so have tissues with you.
When you meet, share with them these instructions.
Human beings have five bodies – a physical body with organs that have sensations, a mental body with a mind that has thoughts, an emotional body with a heart that has feelings, an energetic body with a being that has presence and an archetypal body with a service that has extraordinary missions. You will be communicating in a way that uses the energy and intelligence of all five bodies rather simultaneously.
Here is what may have happened to you before. You were in relationship. In various parts of your five bodies you had considerations. Considerations about yourself, about how you feel, about the other person, about how it is for them, about what is happening right now, about what just happened, about what might happen next, about what you want, and so on. Perhaps you tried communicating about these considerations and the communications failed in some way, or the communication was too painful or too intense for you or the other person to endure. So you stopped communicating. You stopped communicating about considerations that arose in relationship. As soon as you stop intimately communicating the intimacy vanishes. Once no intimate communication is happening for a while, it cannot happen anymore. Once no intimate communication is happening the affinity between you dies. Once affinity dies, what’s the point? So you withdrew back into solitary confinement and there you stayed until now, until this moment, this moment where you have another chance.
Your new chance comes from having new clarity. The clarity is this: the Box creates denial. Denial holds you in solitary confinement. Intimacy heals the solitary confinement of denial through communication. With this new clarity you can start again with a new experiment. Use all five bodies to communicate right now about the considerations that arise for you in being with this person in relationship. Communicate about everything. Communicate all of your considerations. Start with your fears — we all have the same fears. This will take you hours and days to share. These will be hours and days of intimacy. It is so simple. Start with your sadnesses — in sorrows we are one. This will take you more hours and days. Be a little fanatical. Go a little overboard. Pick one person and do regularly scheduled communication sessions. Make the vow that in this relationship you will not let even one consideration in relationship arise without communicating about it. Do not let one consideration exist without it being shared.
Please make sure that your communication is responsible. Communicate about you, about how it is for you, about what is going on for you, not about the other person at all. Use “I” statements, “I feel scared…,” “I really want to…,” “I noticed that…,” “I was wondering what it was that…”
Do not use “you” statements. You cannot change the other person. Stop trying to change people even by insinuation. Changing them is not your job. Their considerations are none of your business. You only listen. You have no answers for them. It is not about them. It is about you sharing.
Do not act as if you are a victim. This is not about having a problem! This is only about sharing your feelings and your considerations about what is arising for you in relationship with them.
Communicating with all 5 Bodies creates intimacy in all 5 Bodies.
This Experiment is to find your way out of solitary confinement. You got yourself in there by withholding your considerations. You can find your way out of there by communicating your considerations.
And here is the miracle: denial floats to the surface and is revealed as a consideration in relationship.
Through communicating about the considerations in relationship, the considerations are no longer in denial and you are no longer in solitary confinement.
Through speaking the truth you are no longer a pathological liar.
BRING YOUR FOUR FEELINGS INTO ACTION THROUGH YOUR VOICE
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What you are angry about is what you care about.
What you are sad about matters to you.
What you are afraid of you take action on.
What you are glad about you celebrate and share.
You can let your Bright Principles speak in your every-day life.
There is a dragon in your belly. Imagine what happens if you don't let it speak.
This Experiment is to get in groups of 3 (or put on 'man' up front) and while the others Hold a safe Space and Listen, one by one the Dragons can come out to speak. Give each one 10 to 15 minutes to find its Voice.
Once your Dragon can speak there is no telling what will happen next. You might Take A Stand. You might Commit to serving something greater than your Me! Me! Me! You might become a Seed. You might invent and build out the Gameworld through which your Archetypal Lineage can do its work in next culture.
IN THE ADULT EGO STATE YOU HAVE A SMALL 'HERE', A SMALL 'NOW', AND A SMALL 'YOU'. STORIES EXIST IN TIME. IN A MINIMIZED 'NOW' THERE IS NO TIME SO IT IS TOO SMALL FOR STORIES. VOICES IN YOUR HEAD KEEP YOU IN A BIG 'NOW' AND THEREFORE OUT OF THE ADULT EGO STATE. HANDLE THE VOICES WITH YOUR 'VOICE BLASTER'.
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YOU THINK YOU COMMIT TO ONE OUTCOME BUT CREATE AN ENTIRELY DIFFERENT OUTCOME - BECAUSE YOU HAVE HIDDEN COMPETING COMMITMENTS
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ENTIRELY EXTRACT YOUR BEING'S POINT OF ORIGIN FROM THE PATRIARCHAL CONTEXT AND TRANSPLANT IT DEEPLY INTO ARCHEARCHY - THE CULTURAL CONTEXT OF ARCHETYPALLY INITIATED ADULT WOMEN CREATIVELY COLLABORATING WITH ARCHETYPALLY INITIATED ADULT MEN
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ESCAPE FROM THE PATRIARCHY
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This Experiment begins by diving deeply into the methods and motives of the capitalist patriarchal empire... patriarchy for short.
Each 'man' in your Men's Circle title two new pages in your Beep! Book as PATRIARCHAL METHODS and PATRIARCHAL MOTIVES. Spend 15-20 minutes listing out in precise detail all the methods you can thinks of, such as:
and spelling out in precise detail all the motivations you have experienced, like:
When a male baby is born it has almost no time to decide whether or not to join the patriarchy and be one of the 'men'. Since there are few other options, the choice looks like: either join the patriarchy or die.
Having to face this choice can easily lead to Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS).
Women have no idea what it costs a male to join the patriarchy. It costs the Being EVERYTHING, because by becoming a patriarch, the Being does not get to be itself. Women in the patriarchy do not have to join the patriarchy. They simply become property, sex slaves, objects owned by the 'men'. In a way, slaves own the masters because slaves must be taken care of by their masters.
When women escape the patriarchy they get freedom.
For 'men' to leave the patriarchy, the patriarch that they are must die. Then the Being must start over again from zero. This is why women have an easier time escaping the patriarchy than the men.
There are not many places or processes existing whereby you can easily escape the patriarchy. It is an arduous task involving at least two years of painful groundlessness.
There are few guides. There are few examples. There are few maps. Nonetheless, it can be done.
Escaping the patriarchy is the greatest adventure on Earth.
I doubt you will even try.
I would bet that you forget this invitation within a few minutes. This moment right now might be the closest you ever get to an exit for the rest of your life. Too bad. Five-body archetypal intimacy is incredible. You will probably never taste it.
BEG FOR HELP FROM THE WOMEN
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Find a few women who have escaped the patriarchy. There is also much work to be done by a woman to escape the patriarchy, but there are some signs that a woman has succeeded. For example, you can interview her with these questions:
ASK 3 WOMEN TO COME TO ONE OF YOUR MEN'S CIRCLES TO HELP YOU BUILD NEW MEN'S BEINGS IN ARCHEARCHY
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The culture that naturally emerges after matriarchy and patriarchy have run their course is 'archearchy' - the initiation-centered culture of archetypally initiated adult women creatively collaborating with archetypally initiated adult men.
HEAL YOURSELF THROUGH HEALING OTHERS
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Healing and Transformation are Sister and Brother in the evolution of consciousness. Focus your day-to-day efforts on helping others to heal, even if they can heal things in themselves that you cannot yet heal in you.
Traditional concepts of healing have 2 Phases:
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